Corset & Collar

It’s official. Marky D. Sade and I have accepted a proposal to work with Fetlife.com as their marketing department. We are actively seeking new relationships with companies, large and small, who are interested in advertising their products or events on the best fetish social networking site. What makes Fetlife.com the best adult, fetish, kinky, social networking site on the internet? Well, take a minute to read what Jane’s Guide had to say about it:

Take a moment and imagine a leather Facebook or Myspace, and then imagine it being run by and for kinky folks. That is exactly what Fetlife is! It is the coolest new community site out there for pervs, and it is absolutely 100% free. I had been hearing the buzz about this new spot on the web from a few of my lifestyle friends, and I finally decided to go set up an account and take a look myself. Many years ago I had been on other sites that promised community and allowed free communication, but since those sites have sold to other companies their soul has left the building and communication costs money. It is also communication that is no longer under the nurturing ownership of perverts with a personal interest in our tribe. I’d lost interest, and so had most of my friends. I was hoping that this site could be some of what I was missing on the old ones. Wow, I wasn’t disappointed! I immediately ran into some of my old friends, and then ran off to recruit new ones. It is easy to sign up. Once you have, then you set up a profile. You can add pics to it, and you’ll never run into that “you have to have such and such membership” to view pics or show them to others. There are social groups here with ongoing forum conversations, so you can sign up for topics that interest you (or create your own groups). There is a mail system that acts like a personal bulletin board for private conversations, so you don’t lose track of what has been said to anyone. You can post writing, see what your friends are doing, and a lot more. A lot of talented pervs are posting writing and engaging in conversation here. I’ve met a lot of new friends. There is a small amount of advertising, but it is done really tastefully and never gets in the way. You can write to the folks that run the site, and they will actually write you back. I’ve been in love with this place and raving about it for the last several weeks. This is one of the few sites that didn’t ask for review. I sought out the owner and asked him if I could post one. It is that good. I feel like I’m giving you guys an early Christmas gift. Go check it out! This is the next big kinky community site! They are going to be huge, and they will stay huge as long as they keep the spirit that they have now. - Vamp

To highlight: “There is a small amount of advertising, but it is done really tastefully and never gets in the way.” and “This is the next big kinky community site! They are going to be huge, and they will continue to stay huge…”

We couldn’t be more proud! It’s all true, too. One thing we love about being a part of the Fetlife team is that we are able to work with you, one-on-one, through each step of the way to get your ad placed in just the right spot. You can advertise broadly across the entire network, or we can target by location (country or state) and by gender (M,F,MtF,FtM and or GQ), thereby optimizing your advertising money by targeting your market, the kinksters who are looking for your company or product!

We only display three ads per page, all static and nicely placed in the F-zone. You’re not competing for attention. People will and do see them, but as Vamp pointed out in her review, they aren’t obnoxious and annoying. We’ll keep it that way! We want to continue to build Fetlife the way it was intended - by (real) Kinksters for (real) Kinksters!

For more information on advertising on Fetlife.com, please contact us at mark@fetlife.com or catalina@fetlife.com. And feel free to grab that banner up above and link it from your site to Fetlife.com. :)

Image by Lochai - Graphic Design by Naughty Secretary

The best sex bloggers collaborate with the best erotic and bondage photographers to produce the best sex blog content you’ll find in one place on the internet.  Here’s a rundown of what you’ll find here (in no particular order other than as it comes to me):

BDSM, Dom, Domme, Submissive, Online D/s, Vanilla, Queer, Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Poly, Psychology, Sexuality, Discussion, Photography, Sociology, Podcasts, Bondage (including beautiful rope bondage by well-respected bondage artists), Erotic Fiction, Tales of Adventures, Sexual Fantasies, Hot Couples, Kink, Fetish, Phone Sex Operators, Professional Sex Writers, Reviews, Photoblogs, Education and Information, Smut, Filth, Flirting, HNT, Networking, Featured Artists, Local Events, Poetry, and even just once in a while a tale about the weird lives we tend to lead.

Represented here are:

Catalina Loves
Marky D. Sade

The Accidental Blowjob
Aiming to Arouse
Altered Aperture
Blue-Eyed Vixen
Bottoms Up! …and, and then some
BT Charles
Curvaceous Dee
Dangerous Lilly
Diary of a Kinky Librarian
Easily Aroused
Eclectic Enchantress
Ellie Lumpesse
The Enigmatic Angel
Erocrush
Essin’ Em
Exjinn.net
Fanny Lucette
FetLIfe
Graydancer
His lolidoll
Janice
Kinkerbelle
Mystress Lady Evyl
Lady Sascha
A Little Cinful
Lochai
Long Distance Sub
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Narration by D
Naughty Secretary
Priapus
Radical Vixen
Reality Nemesis
Sakura Sarashi
Sapphire J
Scarlet Lotus
Stark-Arts
Sugarbutch Chronicles
Sweatshop Sissy
Thursday’s Child
Tits For Troops
Trufetish
Unspeakable Axe

Custom Collars and Cuffs from The Collar Factory

Check out the new custom, special made just for her, collar the my Naughty Secretary just received.  Isn’t it nice?!  So is she!  She deserved a nice, pretty collar to go with her nice, pretty everything else.  Now, the question is, Naughty: Who’s naughty secretary are you now? ;)

Hi!  It’s Catalina, in case you haven’t figured that out.  Marky D. Sade and I both post here, but usually I think people can tell who is writing what.  Anyway, I did some new photos with Altered Aperture the other night.  I’m getting a new collar soon so I wanted to get some shots of my “old” collar in.  I like the lighting, the freckles, the red hair, the collar, and lead combination.  I’m posting just one, but there are several.  If you like them, I’ll post more.  It’s unusual when I like an image of myself, but I do like these.  What do you think?

It’s time for me to get a new public collar, and this is it!  I have a great collar and cuff set already, that I had custom made for me at the Collar Factory.  The collar, though, is a little obvious in public, so I designed this little 3/4″ lambskin/leather black collar without any decoration and just a snap closure.  It’s way less expensive than I thought it would be - it’s going to cost about $23.00.  Their site is neat because it walks you through the process - what kind do you want? what fabrics? what colors?  what length? what adornment?  and finally, what kind of closure do you want?  I saw one made recently that was red like Mz. Berlin’s collar and it was Stunning!  However, I’m going for subtle here, not stunning.  This choker looks like a choker - that collar looks like a collar.  Perfect for home, but not so much for taking the kids to the grocery store.  Even glamorous fetish models go to the store…

Unknown Model, Unknown Photographer, Beautiful Posture Collar!

Lochai - if you’re reading this - do You know this image or watermark (MB ‘07)?

Mz. Berlin is so fucking hot.  Okay, I’ve stated the obvious.  She just sent me this picture of herself in a red leather collar, and I am in love with her all over again.  I’ve never seen a picture of her that is sexier.  See that mouth of hers?  That’s what Marky D. Sade calls her “sex mouth”.  That’s the partially open mouth of a woman who knows how to suck cock.  (Being a fellatrix myself, I love to see that in a picture).  It’s all about the look on her face in this one.

It is a precious rare find for me to come across a beautiful submissive man in a collar. This one (the man) happens to belong to Thursday’s Child. Thanks for letting me use the picture! Drop by and check out Thursday Child’s blog. It’s hot.

Here is a picture of me. (YAY!) Feel free to comment. ::hint hint:: Recognize the collar? My friend, Odysseus, used another picture from this series to make the banner for us. Thanks, Odysseus! If you get a chance, check out the picture of Odysseus’ hot wife, Penelope in her collar on my blog. She is dreamy.

ps: the cuffs were custom made for me by The Collar Factory. I love them!